Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Monday, December 25, 2006
Styrofoam Airplanes and Cardboard Boxes
Christmas 2006 has come and gone. For us it was a sweet day, beginning with the traditional prayer and thanksgiving, and then the opening of the gifts. I got a new shirt and some new jeans and a CD called "Three Wooden Crosses," which features country music songs of faith like the title song by Randy Travis and "Long Black Train" by Josh Turner. There have been a number of fine songs of faith and inspiration that have topped the country charts in recent years. And country is not necessarily what it used to be, as many of the songs seem like the music of pop and light rock that I was raised on in the sixties and seventies. I will enjoy this album of songs.
We had a pleasant day spent around the house, listening to music and watching some television as a family. We had a big noon meal of country ham and green beans and mashed potatoes. And later we watched Philadelphia defeat Dallas in holiday football. We topped it off by watching the movie "Cars." an animated Pixar/Disney tale of being lost and finding redemption. Even our cat and dog came close for a total family experience.
The only sour note of the day came when I was assigned the task of putting together a remote controlled plane for my son, one that been given him by a generous relative. The instructions were written FIRST in Chinese, then in English, which was my first warning. The necessary guidance they contained was written in lingusitically acrobatic sentences by an interpretion deficient writer, with such gems as "Place tail section place in so tape with paper transparent tape double to strong in place where you need."
Decoding the instructions was a bit of a struggle for me, but I boldly went where no plain thinking, linguistically impaired Midwestern American has any business going. Finally, after what seemed like several hours, the plane was ready to launch. We journeyed to an empty field outside of town, all of our family ready to become the second coming of the Wright Brothers, and prepared for a legendary lift off.
But it never came. There did not seem to be any power, no matter how many times I changed the AA batteries, no matter how many little prayers for guidance I prayed for something that was only significant to us. The Kitty Hawk success was not to be duplicated on this Christmas day. So we came home, styrofoam plane and plastic (disguised as aluminum) controller in hand, vowing to search the instructions for a clue as to the problem.
And, if I am lucky, I will help my boy fly that plane by next Christmas. If not, we will still be fine, for he has been blessed with many toys to play with this year and in the past.
As we drove home I was reminded of a Christmas when I received several nice toys, including a remote control tank and a bunch of toy soldiers. But that was the same Christmas my mother got a new washing machine, and the gift my sister and I were obsessed with was the big cardboard box it came in. Simple things and imagination are all a child really needs.
We could probably make a lot of money selling big cardboard boxes as children's toys -- just color the cardboard and come up with a fancy name. If you do it someday, send a big donation to your church, since I gave you the idea!
For now, at the end of the day, I go to rest tonight with a thankful heart for the abundant blessings of our God. I thank the Lord for my wife and children, for my friends and co-workers, for the churches that God has given me to serve. God is so good -- all the time!
I pray for those less fortunate, for those who are hurting, and sick. and hungry, and lonely, and broken hearted. May they find better days and better ways in the coming year. Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
We had a pleasant day spent around the house, listening to music and watching some television as a family. We had a big noon meal of country ham and green beans and mashed potatoes. And later we watched Philadelphia defeat Dallas in holiday football. We topped it off by watching the movie "Cars." an animated Pixar/Disney tale of being lost and finding redemption. Even our cat and dog came close for a total family experience.
The only sour note of the day came when I was assigned the task of putting together a remote controlled plane for my son, one that been given him by a generous relative. The instructions were written FIRST in Chinese, then in English, which was my first warning. The necessary guidance they contained was written in lingusitically acrobatic sentences by an interpretion deficient writer, with such gems as "Place tail section place in so tape with paper transparent tape double to strong in place where you need."
Decoding the instructions was a bit of a struggle for me, but I boldly went where no plain thinking, linguistically impaired Midwestern American has any business going. Finally, after what seemed like several hours, the plane was ready to launch. We journeyed to an empty field outside of town, all of our family ready to become the second coming of the Wright Brothers, and prepared for a legendary lift off.
But it never came. There did not seem to be any power, no matter how many times I changed the AA batteries, no matter how many little prayers for guidance I prayed for something that was only significant to us. The Kitty Hawk success was not to be duplicated on this Christmas day. So we came home, styrofoam plane and plastic (disguised as aluminum) controller in hand, vowing to search the instructions for a clue as to the problem.
And, if I am lucky, I will help my boy fly that plane by next Christmas. If not, we will still be fine, for he has been blessed with many toys to play with this year and in the past.
As we drove home I was reminded of a Christmas when I received several nice toys, including a remote control tank and a bunch of toy soldiers. But that was the same Christmas my mother got a new washing machine, and the gift my sister and I were obsessed with was the big cardboard box it came in. Simple things and imagination are all a child really needs.
We could probably make a lot of money selling big cardboard boxes as children's toys -- just color the cardboard and come up with a fancy name. If you do it someday, send a big donation to your church, since I gave you the idea!
For now, at the end of the day, I go to rest tonight with a thankful heart for the abundant blessings of our God. I thank the Lord for my wife and children, for my friends and co-workers, for the churches that God has given me to serve. God is so good -- all the time!
I pray for those less fortunate, for those who are hurting, and sick. and hungry, and lonely, and broken hearted. May they find better days and better ways in the coming year. Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
Thursday, December 21, 2006
The Praise Song of Mary, Bearer of The Light
I have always been amazed by the story of Mary in Luke 1:26-55. That this young woman, most likely a teenaged girl, would be given such a sacred responsibility stretches my mind. It challenges my spirit. She is a role model for women, teenagers, and for any person (woman, man, youth, child) who wishes to serve God and to be a person of faith and faithfulness.
The Magnificat (Luke 1:46-55) makes my heart leap for joy everytime I read it. It is Mary’s song of praise for what God had done through her. Praise is a marvelous, empowering gift to the one who praises -- and it is pure worship for the God who is worthy of all such adoration and praise. And here Mary puts words to the blessing she was living.
God found favor in her, because of her humility and her purity of heart, and had Gabriel and her cousin Elizabeth announce that Mary was to be the Theotokis—the God bearer. What a shock that must have been to her! Mary reacted with real humanity --"How can this be? I am a virgin!" But after the angel told her the foundational truth -- "All things are possible with God", she made a great statement of faith -- "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word."
Her soul overflowed with praise because the Mighty One had done a great thing in her. Mary’s song declares God to be majestic, holy, abundantly good, and rich in mercy and kindness. It is laced with faith in the Word, as Mary extols the greatness of the God who keeps His promises --"He has helped Israel his servant, remembering his mercy,according to his promise to our fathers, to Abraham and to his descendants forever."
And so it is that God will fulfill the Messianic prophecies in the One whose Heart beats in her womb. He will bring salvation to His people. For this beginning realization of the hope of the ages, Mary sings praises.
It seems that no matter what our circumstance in life, we each have something to sing about. Christmas Eve reminds us that God works miracles in ordinary lives to bless ordinary people. Because of Mary’s blessing, we too can experience the music of life. God gave us, through Mary, the greatest gift of all in the person of his Son, who died for our sins.
At Christmas we should rejoice in the birth --and life and death and resurrection and ascension -- of the King of King and the Lord of Lords,the Prince of Peace, who is Wonderful, and our Savior. Now that is something to sing about! God's great amazing love and the greatest gift of all, Jesus Christ. Thanks be to God!
The Magnificat (Luke 1:46-55) makes my heart leap for joy everytime I read it. It is Mary’s song of praise for what God had done through her. Praise is a marvelous, empowering gift to the one who praises -- and it is pure worship for the God who is worthy of all such adoration and praise. And here Mary puts words to the blessing she was living.
God found favor in her, because of her humility and her purity of heart, and had Gabriel and her cousin Elizabeth announce that Mary was to be the Theotokis—the God bearer. What a shock that must have been to her! Mary reacted with real humanity --"How can this be? I am a virgin!" But after the angel told her the foundational truth -- "All things are possible with God", she made a great statement of faith -- "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word."
Her soul overflowed with praise because the Mighty One had done a great thing in her. Mary’s song declares God to be majestic, holy, abundantly good, and rich in mercy and kindness. It is laced with faith in the Word, as Mary extols the greatness of the God who keeps His promises --"He has helped Israel his servant, remembering his mercy,according to his promise to our fathers, to Abraham and to his descendants forever."
And so it is that God will fulfill the Messianic prophecies in the One whose Heart beats in her womb. He will bring salvation to His people. For this beginning realization of the hope of the ages, Mary sings praises.
It seems that no matter what our circumstance in life, we each have something to sing about. Christmas Eve reminds us that God works miracles in ordinary lives to bless ordinary people. Because of Mary’s blessing, we too can experience the music of life. God gave us, through Mary, the greatest gift of all in the person of his Son, who died for our sins.
At Christmas we should rejoice in the birth --and life and death and resurrection and ascension -- of the King of King and the Lord of Lords,the Prince of Peace, who is Wonderful, and our Savior. Now that is something to sing about! God's great amazing love and the greatest gift of all, Jesus Christ. Thanks be to God!
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
The Gift of Marriage -- May It Light Your World
We rejoiced in the wedding of two wonderful people this past weekend in one of our churches, a young woman and young man of untold potential. It was our privilige to pronounce them husband and wife. It was such a glorious ceremony, with strirring music and heartfelt words. After the pronouncement of marriage there was an outburst of praise choruses and then a commissioning service with everyone lighting candles to the music of "Light Your World."
As the lights went off and the church was lit by the warm glow of over 200 candles, it was a sight I will never forget. The truth of the Scriptures was writ plain in the people: God is love, and those who abide in love, abide in God, and God abides in them. This was a day that God had made, and we rejoiced together in the couple's love and faith. God has great plans for them!
We asked God to bless them so that they may be strengthened for their life together. We praised God for their happiness, and we found in their love a reason to renew our own commitments to those whom are near and dear to each of us. They were called together by God for the purpose of their union. Praise God that He cares enough for us to do such a great thing.
The Gift of Marriage does not unite a man and a woman. Rather, it is the Church's recognition of a union that God has already begun to work in their lives. As long as the union remains within the reality of this world, it will be subject to sin, pain, and death. But, through marriage, the union enters at the same time into a new reality: that of God's Kingdom. In Christ, marriage is restored to its initial perfection and in the holy vows, this union is made open to the possibility of what God intended marriage to be from the beginning: an eternal life of joy in union with Him. Below is an essay I read at the wedding, that many have asked me to give them a copy. It crystalizes many of our thoughts about marriage.
The Gift of Marriage from the Presbyterian Church USA Book of Common Worship
Marriage is a gift of God in creation through which husband and wife may know the grace of God. It is gift that as man and woman grow together in love and trust,
they shall more and more be united with one another in heart, body and mind, as Christ is united with his bride, the Church.
Marriage is a way of life made holy by God, and blessed by the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ with those celebrating a wedding at Cana in Galilee. It was part of God’s great plan that He performed his first miracle there, turning water into wine for the wedding feast. Marriage is a sign of unity and loyalty which enriches society and strengthens community.
God created us male and female, and gave us marriage so that husband and wife may help and comfort each other, living faithfully together in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, throughout all of their days.
God gave us marriage for the full expression of the love between a man and a woman. In marriage a woman and a man belong to each other, and with affection and tenderness, they freely give of themselves to each other.
God gave us marriage for the well-being of human society, for the ordering of family life, and for the birth and nurture of children.
God gave us marriage as a holy mystery in which a man and a woman are joined together and become one, just as Christ is one with the church. In marriage, husband an wife are called to a new way of life, created, ordered and blessed by God. This way of life must not be entered into carelessly, or from selfish motives, but responsibly and prayerfully. We rejoice that marriage is given by God, blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ, and sustained by the Holy Spirit. Therefore, let marriage be held in honor by all.
As the lights went off and the church was lit by the warm glow of over 200 candles, it was a sight I will never forget. The truth of the Scriptures was writ plain in the people: God is love, and those who abide in love, abide in God, and God abides in them. This was a day that God had made, and we rejoiced together in the couple's love and faith. God has great plans for them!
We asked God to bless them so that they may be strengthened for their life together. We praised God for their happiness, and we found in their love a reason to renew our own commitments to those whom are near and dear to each of us. They were called together by God for the purpose of their union. Praise God that He cares enough for us to do such a great thing.
The Gift of Marriage does not unite a man and a woman. Rather, it is the Church's recognition of a union that God has already begun to work in their lives. As long as the union remains within the reality of this world, it will be subject to sin, pain, and death. But, through marriage, the union enters at the same time into a new reality: that of God's Kingdom. In Christ, marriage is restored to its initial perfection and in the holy vows, this union is made open to the possibility of what God intended marriage to be from the beginning: an eternal life of joy in union with Him. Below is an essay I read at the wedding, that many have asked me to give them a copy. It crystalizes many of our thoughts about marriage.
The Gift of Marriage from the Presbyterian Church USA Book of Common Worship
Marriage is a gift of God in creation through which husband and wife may know the grace of God. It is gift that as man and woman grow together in love and trust,
they shall more and more be united with one another in heart, body and mind, as Christ is united with his bride, the Church.
Marriage is a way of life made holy by God, and blessed by the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ with those celebrating a wedding at Cana in Galilee. It was part of God’s great plan that He performed his first miracle there, turning water into wine for the wedding feast. Marriage is a sign of unity and loyalty which enriches society and strengthens community.
God created us male and female, and gave us marriage so that husband and wife may help and comfort each other, living faithfully together in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, throughout all of their days.
God gave us marriage for the full expression of the love between a man and a woman. In marriage a woman and a man belong to each other, and with affection and tenderness, they freely give of themselves to each other.
God gave us marriage for the well-being of human society, for the ordering of family life, and for the birth and nurture of children.
God gave us marriage as a holy mystery in which a man and a woman are joined together and become one, just as Christ is one with the church. In marriage, husband an wife are called to a new way of life, created, ordered and blessed by God. This way of life must not be entered into carelessly, or from selfish motives, but responsibly and prayerfully. We rejoice that marriage is given by God, blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ, and sustained by the Holy Spirit. Therefore, let marriage be held in honor by all.
Friday, December 01, 2006
Praying for Serenity
I came across the Serenity Prayer tonight, as I was looking through some old files. Written by famed theologian and professor of Christian ethics Reinhold Niebuhr, it is a sermon in itself:
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can;and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will;That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen.
Neihbuhr is said to have written the prayer on July 1, 1943 for the Union Church of Heath, Massachusetts. It is still used in Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonaymous and other Twelve-step programs. The short version that most people are familiar with goes as follows:
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
This little prayer touches on common universal human experiences of life—anxiety and acceptance in the face of inevitable tragic events—fear of change and difficulties in bringing about constructive changes in self and society—the struggle to achieve serenity, courage and wisdom in all that we do or happens to us. Niebuhr’s prayer pulled it all together in a few simple sentences, which everyone could understand and relate to. It was the kind of prayer that A.A. could easily adopt and apply to the life experiences of alcoholics.
I can also see how it can be applied to my own life. In the life of pastor I see many things that I can pray about, and I try to always do it. Many of them are other people's problems, but they become mine. too, as I try to serve God and His people. Some are situations that I have inherited, things in place long before I came to the place I live and serve. Sadly, many of the things I pray about I cannot change, but I can only hope for it, and so I put the situations into God's hands. I need to rest in that act, and not try to take the weight of all the hurts and pains and problems onto my very human shoulders.
“God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change.” There are so many things we cannot change in our lives. We waste vast amounts of physical, psychic and spiritual energy with useless regrets, failed fantasies, or embittered recollections. We cannot change many of the afflictions we are born with -- we may be blind, deaf or lame -- or afflictions brought on by accidents. And our skin color and ethnic background is something we cannot change either, no matter how hard we may try. Body types, physical beauty or lack thereof, and levels of intelligence are things that resist change big time. There are other things -- the list is too long for us to go into it fully. But you can get the general truth of it all.
And certain situations seem to be like mighty walls we cannot crack. We may have loved ones sick and dying, and sadly no amount of prayer or medicine seems to make the difference we wish for. There are some things about myself I cannot change or can only change within certain very well defined limits, new year’s resolutions or not.
I can’t change—you can’t change—the mistakes in human relationships made in the past year or years of our lives. We can make amends to a degree, say we’re sorry, ask for forgiveness, forgive others, and forgive ourselves (much harder to do). But we cannot change the fact that we have been (and will be) at times less loving and caring and compassionate than we should be in following Christ. That’s the human condition. There are few saints among us, and even the saints have their flaws. We can’t change the past. What we can change is our relationship to it and our attitudes and actions stemming from it. But we need to have the courage to change the things we can change -- and, with God's help, with prayer and patience, many things can change for the better.
And that brings us to the prayerful plea for wisdom to know the difference between what we cannot change and what we can change. May God grant that to us. It is the key to serenity.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can;and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will;That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen.
Neihbuhr is said to have written the prayer on July 1, 1943 for the Union Church of Heath, Massachusetts. It is still used in Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonaymous and other Twelve-step programs. The short version that most people are familiar with goes as follows:
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
This little prayer touches on common universal human experiences of life—anxiety and acceptance in the face of inevitable tragic events—fear of change and difficulties in bringing about constructive changes in self and society—the struggle to achieve serenity, courage and wisdom in all that we do or happens to us. Niebuhr’s prayer pulled it all together in a few simple sentences, which everyone could understand and relate to. It was the kind of prayer that A.A. could easily adopt and apply to the life experiences of alcoholics.
I can also see how it can be applied to my own life. In the life of pastor I see many things that I can pray about, and I try to always do it. Many of them are other people's problems, but they become mine. too, as I try to serve God and His people. Some are situations that I have inherited, things in place long before I came to the place I live and serve. Sadly, many of the things I pray about I cannot change, but I can only hope for it, and so I put the situations into God's hands. I need to rest in that act, and not try to take the weight of all the hurts and pains and problems onto my very human shoulders.
“God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change.” There are so many things we cannot change in our lives. We waste vast amounts of physical, psychic and spiritual energy with useless regrets, failed fantasies, or embittered recollections. We cannot change many of the afflictions we are born with -- we may be blind, deaf or lame -- or afflictions brought on by accidents. And our skin color and ethnic background is something we cannot change either, no matter how hard we may try. Body types, physical beauty or lack thereof, and levels of intelligence are things that resist change big time. There are other things -- the list is too long for us to go into it fully. But you can get the general truth of it all.
And certain situations seem to be like mighty walls we cannot crack. We may have loved ones sick and dying, and sadly no amount of prayer or medicine seems to make the difference we wish for. There are some things about myself I cannot change or can only change within certain very well defined limits, new year’s resolutions or not.
I can’t change—you can’t change—the mistakes in human relationships made in the past year or years of our lives. We can make amends to a degree, say we’re sorry, ask for forgiveness, forgive others, and forgive ourselves (much harder to do). But we cannot change the fact that we have been (and will be) at times less loving and caring and compassionate than we should be in following Christ. That’s the human condition. There are few saints among us, and even the saints have their flaws. We can’t change the past. What we can change is our relationship to it and our attitudes and actions stemming from it. But we need to have the courage to change the things we can change -- and, with God's help, with prayer and patience, many things can change for the better.
And that brings us to the prayerful plea for wisdom to know the difference between what we cannot change and what we can change. May God grant that to us. It is the key to serenity.
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